the kairos date night

Mark your calendars for a moment in time that has the capacity to change the direction of your marriage (or your future marriage). Talk through what Josh called the 7 Marks of Family — or make your own marks! No matter what, start setting the True North for each of these critical areas, and spend time on your date debating, sparking, and creating ideas around the things that matter most in this life you are forging.

Below you will find The Seven Marks of Family and Josh's True North statements along with some Date Night Q's, and a Kairos Date Night Printable Worksheet. Enjoy!

the seven marks of family

spiritual

Choosing to live in the way of Jesus

MARRIAGE

Seeking "echad" as we paint a picture of God and Creation.

KIDS

Raising warrior princesses who fight for others and know they are fought for

HEALTH

Tending and keeping that which our Father made and called very good

HOME

Creating a space of shalom

MONEY

Being generative and generous

CALENDAR

Living in the unforced rhythms of grace

DATE NIGHT QUESTIONS

  1. What is your favorite memory from our first date?
  2. What is our best Christmas tradition? 
  3. What has worked out differently than you ever thought it would? 
  4. What have been your (or our) "True North" ideals, even if they were not written down? 
  5. Do you like these 7 Marks for our family or would you change any of them? 
Okay! Now talk about those "True North" statements now. Ignite, create, debate, and stir conversation around what True North looks like for you.

KAIROS PRINTABLE WORKSHEET

>> Download the VII Marks of Family Worksheet